Uh-huh. I have always maintained the same - but my OH challenges me on this, as he's seen my response to the music played live. In performance, the snarly intellect often gives way to the melancholic romantic. It's easy to understand why men cry and women throw roses. He embodies the heartbroken, and takes us along for the ride.
I'm just trying to imagine why Franzie has "Summer Wine" on her mp3 player. I'm trying to imagine that song without the context of it being a horribly-overplayed MOR hit at a time when I despised such things. It's probably a much better song than I remember.